Recognizing the Signs: How to Tell if a Teen is Self-Harming
Self-harm among teenagers is a serious concern that often goes unnoticed. Many teens who engage in self-injury go to great lengths to hide their behavior, making it challenging for caregivers, teachers, and friends to recognize the warning signs. Understanding these signs of how to tell if a teen is self harming can help provide early intervention and support.
Why Recognizing the Signs Matters
Teens who self-harm are often struggling with overwhelming emotions, stress, or underlying mental health issues. While self-harm is not necessarily a suicide attempt, it can be a dangerous coping mechanism that requires attention and care. By recognizing the signs, trusted adults can offer help before the situation worsens.
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Behavioral Signs of Self-Harm
Teens who engage in self-harm may exhibit changes in behavior that indicate distress. Look for the following warning signs:
- Wearing long sleeves or pants in warm weather – A common way to hide injuries such as cuts, burns, or bruises.
- Avoiding activities that expose skin – Hesitance to participate in sports, swimming, or changing in front of others.
- Increased i
solation and withdrawal – Pulling away from family and friends, spending excessive time alone. - Mood swings, irritability, or expressions of hopelessness – Emotional instability, frustration, or difficulty managing emotions.
- Frequent unexplained absences from school or social events – A decline in engagement with responsibilities or hobbies.
- Keeping sharp objects in personal spaces – Razors, broken glass, or other items hidden in their room or belongings.
- Talking about self-harm or struggling to cope – Making statements about feeling numb, overwhelmed, or unable to deal with emotions.
Physical Signs of Self-Harm
Some physical indicators may signal that a teen is engaging in self-injury. These include:
- Unexplained cuts, burns, bruises, or scars – Often found on arms, thighs, or abdomen.
- Frequent “accidents” or vague explanations for injuries – Excuses like “I tripped” or “My cat scratched me.”
- Wearing bandages or covering specific areas frequently – Covering wounds without a clear reason.
- Bloodstains on clothing, towels, or bedding – Signs of untreated wounds or repeated injury.
- Scars that appear in patterns or clusters – Repetitive markings that indicate self-inflicted injuries.
- Signs of infection from untreated wounds – Redness, swelling, or irritation due to repeated self-harm.
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What to do if You Suspect a Teen is Self-Harming
If you notice any of these signs, it’s crucial to approach the situation with care and empathy:
- Start a conversation – Gently express your concern without judgment therefore letting them know you are there to listen and support them.
- Avoid punishment or criticism – Self-harm is often a coping mechanism, not an act of defiance. Responding with anger can push them
further away. - Encourage professional help – A mental health professional can provide guidance and healthier coping strategies.
- Offer alternative coping mechanisms – Activities like journaling, exercise, art, or mindfulness can help them express emotions in a safer way.
- Create a safe and supportive environment – Show consistent care and reassure them that they are not alone.
Seeking Help
If you suspect that a teen in your life is self-harming, early intervention is key. As a therapist specializing in adolescent mental health, I provide a safe and compassionate space where teens can explore their emotions and develop healthier ways to cope.
If you or someone you know needs support, don’t hesitate to reach out. Schedule a session today and take the first step toward healing and understanding.
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For further reading on this topic of self harm, please check out Why Does Self Harm Happen in Teens here
About Chipo
Chipo is a Registered Social Worker with a Master’s in Clinical Social Work, providing compassionate and culturally competent therapy to teens, adults, and families. With advanced training in Trauma-Informed Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Mindfulness, Chipo helps clients address a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and life transitions.
Through a trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, and intersectional lens, Chipo creates a safe and inclusive environment where each client feels genuinely heard and understood. To book a session with Chipo click here
