Chipo, Clinical Social Worker, Therapist for Teen Girls and Young Women with Pyramid Pyschology. Grief, trauma, changes, relationships

The Secret Ingredient in Therapy That Sparks Transformation at All Ages

The Secret Ingredient in Therapy That Sparks Transformation at All Ages

At the heart of every successful therapeutic journey lies one essential ingredient: The importance of the therapist-client relationship. This isn’t just about how well the therapist and client get along—it’s about building a relationship rooted in trust, empathy, collaboration, and safety. Regardless of a client’s age—whether they’re a child navigating big emotions, a teen wrestling with identity, or an adult working through life’s challenges—the strength of the therapeutic relationship can determine the depth and effectiveness of the work we do together.

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  • Boost happy hormones naturally
  • Cope with trick feelings
  • Develop self-compassion

 

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The Healing Power of Connection

What is the Therapeutic Alliance (therapist-client relationship)?

The therapeutic alliance refers to the professional relationship between therapist and client. It includes mutual respect, shared goals, and a sense of partnership. When clients feel seen, heard, and valued, they are more likely to engage deeply, explore vulnerable topics, and take steps toward meaningful change.

 

 

Why It Matters Across All Age Groups

The importance of the therapist-client relationship matters uniquely across the following age groups:

Children need to feel emotionally safe before they can express their inner world. A strong alliance allows them to trust the process and the person guiding them through it. Play, storytelling, and non-verbal communication flourish when children feel connected to their therapist.

Teens often test boundaries and may approach therapy with skepticism. A solid therapeutic relationship reassures them that therapy is a space where they won’t be judged but rather understood. It creates a foundation where they can explore their identity, stressors, and relationships with honesty.

Adults benefit from a collaborative relationship where they feel empowered and supported. Life’s complexities—career, family, identity, mental health—require a space where they can process freely, gain insight, and receive consistent emotional support.

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The Evidence Speaks on the The importance of the therapist-client relationship

Research consistently shows that the therapeutic alliance is one of the most significant predictors of positive treatment outcomes. In fact, some studies suggest that the quality of the alliance is even more important than the type of therapy used. This holds true across different mental health issues, cultural backgrounds, and age groups.

My Approach to Building Connection

In my work at Pyramid Psychology, I prioritize the person before the problem.  I aim to create a space where clients feel respected and empowered. Whether it’s walking alongside a young person as they make sense of their feelings or supporting an adult through major life transitions, my focus is on showing warmth, authenticity, and clinical skill.

No two therapeutic relationships look the same—because no two clients are the same and that is the importance of the therapist-client relationship. I take the time to get to know who you are beyond your challenges, helping you tap into your strengths and take ownership of your growth.

Love,

Chipo

Now Accepting New Clients

If you or someone you care about is looking for support, I am currently accepting new clients at Pyramid Psychology. Whether you are seeking therapy for yourself, your child, or your teen, I would be honored to walk alongside you on your journey toward healing and growth.

Let’s build something meaningful together.

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Chipo, Clinical Social Worker, Therapist for Teen Girls and Young Women with Pyramid Pyschology. Grief, trauma, changes, relationships

Chipo Bvindi, Therapist at Pyramid Psychology

About Chipo

Chipo is a Registered Social Worker with a Master’s in Clinical Social Work, providing compassionate and culturally competent therapy to teens, adults, and families. With advanced training in Trauma-Informed Therapy, Narrative Therapy, Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT), Dialectical Behavioral Therapy (DBT), Acceptance and Commitment Therapy (ACT), and Mindfulness.

Chipo helps clients address a range of challenges, including anxiety, depression, trauma, grief, and life transitions. Through a trauma-informed, anti-oppressive, and intersectional lens, Chipo creates a safe and inclusive environment where each client feels genuinely heard and understood. As a Black therapist, Chipo brings a nuanced perspective on identity, culture, and systemic issues, offering an approach that deeply respects each person’s experiences. Whether you are a teen discovering yourself, an adult managing stress, or a family working through relationship dynamics, Chipo’s personalized approach aims to meet your unique needs.

Beyond the therapy room, faith, family, and friendships provide Chipo with strength and balance. Chipo finds peace in nature through walking, journaling, and appreciating life’s small moments. When it’s time to relax, Chipo enjoys Korean dramas, city adventures, and reading for pleasure. Sometimes, you’ll find Chipo embracing a playful side through art, dancing, or even building sandcastles—because life is meant to be lived fully!

Ready to take the next step? Book a free consultation today, and let’s work together toward your path to healing and personal growth.

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What to Say to Support a Struggling Teen Girl

What to Say to Support a Struggling Teen Girl

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What to say when your teen daughter is struggling? You’ve probably heard the phrase “this too shall pass” before. Maybe someone said it to comfort you once during a tough moment, or maybe you’ve seen it written somewhere and thought, “Yeah, but it doesn’t feel like it right now.” 

When you’re daughter is in the middle of something painful, overwhelming, or uncomfortable, those words can feel distant or even dismissive. But what if she knew something powerful: she already lives this truth every single day.

There’s a quiet strength in realizing that life is always changing and moving—like river water rushing over rocks. We are all part of that river, capable of riding its currents even when they feel strong.

Finding Peace in the Chaos.

 

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Think about the everyday moments that support the truth that “this too shall pass”:

  • The end of sleep becomes the beginning of wakefulness.
  • The end of a fast is the beginning of eating.
  • The end of an inhale is the beginning of an exhale.
  • The end of one thought makes room for silence, and that silence becomes space for another thought.

Your teen is constantly transitioning from one thing to another. These shifts are happening often without even realizing. They can show her that change isn’t something to be feared—it’s something she are already doing. Over and over again. Each day.

So when she’s feeling stuck in a moment—maybe anxiety feels too loud, or sadness feels heavy, or stress has taken over—remind her: this too shall pass. Not in a way that rushes her to feel better, but in a way that lets her breathe and remember her strength. Emotions, like current, ebb and flow. Nothing stays forever, even the hardest moments.

If she’s in it right now and it feels like it won’t end- what to say when your teen daughter is struggling?

Here’s an invitation to share:

First, look at your day so far. Then, think what are 3 endings that have led to new beginnings? (Here are some ideas to get things going!)

  1. The end of your alarm marked the start of your morning.
  2. The end of a dream brought you back to waking life.
  3. The end of brushing your teeth led to your first smile.
  4. The end of hesitation turned into a small brave act.
  5. The end of a class gave you space to breathe.
  6. The end of scrolling turned into presence.
  7. The end of a sigh made way for calm.
  8. The end of silence began a conversation.
  9. The end of frustration opened the door to understanding.
  10. The end of one step moved you closer to where you’re going.

You are far more resilient than you realize. The chaos may swirl around you, but there’s a steady truth underneath it all: change is constant, and you are capable of flowing with it. 

When it feels like too much, anchor into this knowing. Just like the river over rocks—you will move through.

You’ve got this.

With gratitude and love,

Chantal 

Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path Group For Teen Girls

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Friendships Inside Jokes and Feeling Understood

The Magic of The Happiness Path (THP): Friendships, Inside Jokes, and Feeling Understood

There’s something truly special that happens in THP from the very first day. Most teen girls walk in feeling nervous, quiet, and unsure. But as we jump into lighthearted icebreakers, you start to see smiles forming and hear laughter bubbling up. One girl shares something vulnerable, and another nods, realizing she’s not alone. Over the weeks, inside jokes are born, and the group transforms into a place teens genuinely look forward to—whether they’ve had a rough day or an amazing one. With nourishing snacks, warm smiles, and a space where they’re welcomed just as they are, they begin to feel a sense of belonging.

Beyond the conversations and shared moments, THP helps girls build a deeper connection with themselves. During our movement days, they learn to listen to their bodies—not to judge them, but to appreciate them. Instead of seeing their bodies as something to fix, they start to move in ways that feel empowering. They try new things that push them just beyond their comfort zones, and in doing so, they realize they can handle challenges—and that it’s worth it.

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But if you ask them what they love most about THP, time and time again, they’ll tell you it’s the friendships, inside jokes, and feeling understood. It’s the pookie wookies (the inside jokes and silly moments that only they understand). It’s knowing they have a group of peers who see them, encourage them, and stand by them. In a world that can feel isolating, THP becomes a space where they can launch from to be real, brave, and deeply connected. And that, more than anything, is why we keep doing this work.

Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

From Self-Doubt to Self-Discovery

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At first, it felt like nothing would change—constant overthinking, second-guessing every move, feeling stuck in jealousy and self-doubt. Maybe emotions felt too big to handle, or anxiety kept getting in the way of what could be fun. The pressure to fit in, to have it all figured out, to be enough—it was exhausting. But what if things could feel different?

Fast forward to today—more self-awareness, more confidence, and decisions that actually feel good. THP girls learn to challenge their self-talk, breathe through the stress, and take small (and REALLY BIG) powerful steps toward what they really want. “I’ve learned that I’m able to push myself out of my comfort zone,” one girl shared. Trying new things, speaking up, setting boundaries, and showing kindness (to themselves and others) isn’t just an idea—it’s actually happening. They’re encouraged to practice being at the edge of their comfort zone, and the results are clear: “I’ve started taking time to settle and breathe and use positive affirmations”. THP truly took her from self-doubt to self-discovery!

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The biggest shift? They see their own strength. They recognize that they can handle tough emotions, that self-care isn’t selfish, and that growth happens one step at a time. THP isn’t just about feeling better in the moment—it’s about building lifelong roots of confidence and resilience. And for every girl who’s ever doubted herself? This is proof that change is possible.

Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

Helping Your Teen See Her Greatness

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Most parents we work with see some pretty incredible qualities in their teens— such as their kindness, creativity, talents, and resilience. However, all too often, they tell us how hard it is when their daughters don’t see it in themselves. Between peer pressure, social media, and self-doubt, it’s easy for them to focus on what they lack instead of what makes them amazing. The good news? You can help them build the confidence to recognize their own strengths.

Self-esteem isn’t just about praise (although it’s ok once in a while!). It’s about giving your teen space to explore who they are, what they love, and what makes them them. That’s exactly why we created THP (The Happiness Path)—a space where teen girls can uncover their strengths, build self-worth, and learn to navigate life with confidence.


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If you want to start helping your teen see her greatness, then THP is here to help. With hands-on creative activities, mindset shifts, confidence improving movement days, and a supportive community, we guide teen girls to OWN their strengths and feel good about who they are. Because when they believe in themselves, everything changes.

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Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned…

When life doesn't go as planned

When Life Doesn’t Go as Planned: How to Handle Disappointment and Move on Stronger! 

You studied hard, but that test score? Yikes. You put yourself out there, but that friendship still feels one-sided and draining. Maybe your family rules are keeping you from that weekend hangout, and it sucks! Disappointment stings, no doubt. Here’s a question- how well are you able to shake it off and try again? Because that is where your power lies.

Bouncing back when life doesn’t go as planned isn’t about ignoring the feels (we’re all about being real with feelings in The Happiness Path group). It’s about giving yourself space to feel whatever is coming up, then getting to a place where you can flip the switch. What can you learn? What’s Plan B? What’s the next step I want to take? Every setback is a setup for something better—if you let it be. The real secret? Shifting your attention from what went wrong, to what’s next.

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So next time life throws a plot twist your way, remember: You are way more resilient than you think. And if you’re willing to try a little help finding your bounce-back magic, THP (The Happiness Path) is your go-to space to build confidence, crush stress, and handle life’s ups and downs.

When life doesn't go as planned

Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

From Feeling Alone to Connected

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Sam scrolled through her phone for the twelfth time that night. She was watching her friends’ group chat light up with plans she wasn’t invited to. Maybe they don’t actually like me, she thought, her chest tightening. Lately, she’d felt invisible, surrounded by people all the time in the hallways at school and online in chats-  but it was like no one really saw her or cared if she was there. She wanted to reach out, but the fear of being rejected or bothering people kept her silent.

Feeling lonely can be overwhelming. No matter how lonely you feel, please know you’re not alone in this. So many teen girls experience the same thing—wanting deeper friendships but not knowing how to find them. Sometimes, the right people are closer than you think; it just takes the right space to learn how to connect. That’s why THP (The Happiness Path) was created—to bring girls together in a safe, supportive group where real friendships form and teens can start to feel confident to make new friends. After THP, teens can go from feeling alone to connected.

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In THP, girls like Sam learn how to build confidence in social situations, recognize their worth, and surround themselves with people who truly care. If you’ve ever felt like you don’t belong, THP can help you find the connections and confidence you’ve been looking for. You don’t have to do this alone—your people are out there, and this is your chance to find them.

With gratitude, 


Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

Looking Beyond Self Doubt

Looking Beyond Self-Doubt: Helping Your Teen Find Her Brave

Watching your teenage daughter struggle with anxiety can be crushing. You want to protect her, to help her skip all the things that make her feel terrible and anxious. The secret is true confidence isn’t built by avoiding fear- it grows when she faces it, little by little. Whether it’s speaking up in class, making a new friend, or trying something new, every small step outside her comfort zone teaches her that she can handle discomfort—and that’s where real resilience begins to start looking beyond self doubt, helping your teen find her brave!

This process, called exposure, helps rewire the brain. The more she leans into challenges instead of avoiding them, the more she tips the scale of confidence in her favour, giving less power to anxiety. It won’t be easy at first, but the reward is worth it: self-trust, confidence, and the belief that she is stronger than her fears. That’s exactly what we do in THP (The Happiness Path)—helping teen girls take those steps in a supportive environment, surrounded by others doing the same.


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If your daughter struggles with self-doubt or fear, THP can help her find her brave, one step at a time. She doesn’t have to do it alone, and neither do you. Resilience isn’t about never feeling anxious—it’s about learning she has the power to move through it. And when she does? That’s when she realizes she’s capable of more than she ever imagined.

Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

How to Help Your Teen Become Brave

How to Help Your Teen Become Brave

Did you know your teen daughter is likely having thoughts that they might fail at the important things in life?—whether it’s school, friendships, or future plans. The pressure to succeed and meet expectations can leave them so stressed, anxious, and stuck in self-doubt. While your instinct might be to encourage them to push through or think about it as a necessary part of getting to the next part of their journey, a powerful yet often overlooked tool is learning to pause and be present in the moment- this can help your teen become brave.

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Your Teen Can Become Resilient

Imagine guiding teen girls to tune into their thoughts, emotions, and surroundings, helping them break free from the cycle of replaying past events or constantly stressing over the future. When they practice mindfulness and self-awareness, they gain clarity and confidence. Instead of being consumed by “what ifs” and worst-case scenarios, they can find space between the moment and their response. This grows their power to face challenges with a sense of “I can handle this” and focus. This shift not only eases their anxiety but also empowers them to make choices that align with what matters most to them, rather than just doing what they think they should do.

In our 6-week group program, The Happiness Path (THP), we dedicate week 2 to helping teenagers experience being present and practice in real-time with creative and fun exercises. By strengthening their ability to be present, your daughter can navigate life’s pressures with resilience and intention. They learn that failure isn’t something to fear—it’s part of growth. And more importantly, they begin to see that success isn’t just about meeting expectations but about building a future that feels meaningful and fulfilling to them. And that is how we can help your teen become brave!

Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path

Why Your Teen Feels Unmotivated

Why Your Teen Feels Unmotivated

As a kid, Emma was full of energy, excited about soccer practice and hanging out with friends. But lately, she’s been dragging herself through the day—tired, unmotivated, and irritated with her parents over little things. She doesn’t want to, but she feels like she can’t help it.  “She’s just on her phone too much and it’s making her lazy,” her mom thought at first. But then she noticed something: Emma wasn’t sleeping well, she was constantly retreating to her bedroom, and overwhelmed by many tasks. It wasn’t laziness at all—Emma’s “battery” was running low.
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And What a Cell Phone Can Teach Us

Think of your teen like a cell phone. For example, when too many apps are open (stress piling up), storage is almost full (mental overload), or the battery is low (lack of rest and recharge), things start to glitch- this is why your teen feels unmotivated. Likewise, just like a phone, teens function best in the right conditions—time to recharge, space to process emotions, and moments to be present without distractions. While they can’t always control life’s demands, they can make choices that support their well-being, like setting boundaries, taking mindful breaks, and being intentional about self-care.

In The Happiness Path (THP) group for teen girls, we help teen girls recognize what drains their energy and learn how to “charge” in a way that works for them. Through fun, creative exercises, they practice tuning into their needs, understanding their emotions, and creating habits that help them show up as their best selves. Motivation isn’t about pushing harder—it’s about learning to operate in a way that allows them to thrive. Because when they take care of themselves, just like a well-charged phone, they can function at their best.

Chantal Côté
Registered Psychologist & Teen Life Coach
Founder of Pyramid Psychology and The Happiness Path